Sandy,
What I am trying to make clear is that I definitely do not blame APUG as such for what is happening here. Like I said, the direction and the philosophy of that board is entirely the prerogative of the board's owner and I respect that. That does not mean I have to like it or agree with it, quite to the contrary, so after a brief participation, I decided it was not the place I would feel comfortable at and I left.
I am, however, blaming a few of their current or former number for some confrontations that are happening as of lately here, and increasingly so. The reason I have mentioned APUG is precisely because they are bringing the same diatribes that I find commonplace there, some of them almost verbatim. In my opinion, they are trying to transplant the negative and confrontational part of the APUG's spirit as I see it here.
Please note that I say "a few of the current and former members" - that definitely does not mean "everybody" on the board, nor its owner and moderators. In fact, I have nothing but very high respect for a couple of their moderators who are regular participants here and whom I have never heard saying anything even remotely similar to the behaviour in question. What I find sad, and I stated that before too, is that the board has a real potential to be a treasure trove for traditional processes but it gets drowned out because it was set up as a reaction and an antithesis to digital rather than as just traditional photography interest group.
But in the end, it is precisely as you say - what happens in Vegas should stay in Vegas. The question is: which Vegas?
Well, yes, just as we carry a very different personal "weight", both here and there. I think someone of your standing is much less likely to have the "attitude" directed at them in the first place, which is only normal. Secondly, we necessarily do have different preferences and perspectives and that certainly influences the way we perceive some of the discussions. And finally, we each have different temperaments and therefore prefer different policies.
In the end, yes, you are right - it is bad form, even in the light of everything I just said. My mistake was that I tried to reason with the unreasonable and got baited in the process. Those few are now safely tucked away on my ignore list, which is what I should've done from the very beginning.
Marko
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