Bobby,
Post your 1Ds sample then. My apologies if you're getting insulted. However, I do know who I'm talking to. This is a common issue that a lot of digital users complain about when they are first starting out with their Photoshop work. I teach a RAW workflow workshop at a local college a few times a year. I find that the people who mention this issue no longer have the problem once they understand how to process their RAW images. B&W conversion is actually more difficult than color. How are you converting your color work to B&W?
Your issues are a matter of Photoshop workflow, not "depth" differences. Because each film has a particular curve characteristic, I believe what you're trying to do is mimic the light response curve you see for each film and find a digital counterpart. Because you haven't found it, you're equating this difference to a lack of depth. As well, I believe that you appear to expect some grain in an image and by not seeing it, you feel the digital source may be "flat."
The depth difference you're describing sounds like nothing more than contrast difference because of this curve. I know you're disagreeing with this, but considering you appear to be the only person on this thread experiencing this particular problem, I would say that this issue is in your workflow, rather than an inherent depth difference between film and digital.
Let us know how you converted yor B&W. As well, post a 1Ds sample. Maybe a color & B&W explaing why you think it lacks depth.
Bets regards,
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