I once returned an item that was worth around $30 paid without Paypal. The seller said he never got it. BS. I just chalked it up to a lesson learned. This is the reason I won't sell or buy big ticket items on ebay. Too much of a hassle. I've bought stuff but have limited it to let's say a hundred dollars. Also, I check the seller's rating to make sure it's 99% positive.
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