The Lounge, or it's equivalent, serves and important purpose in online message boards. It fosters a sense of community, friendship, as an area where posters can express their personalities and talk about other interests, as they might with friends. And through this interaction, people do indeed become friends. The problems arise on mature boards where friends have formed cliques or groups, and develop rivalries with other groups; plus there are antisocial or negative persons who will put down others and of course feel more free to do so in the more informal setting of The Lounge. But I don't think the solution is eliminating The Lounge, because that sense of community and friendship is what keeps many posters coming back long after they've answered whatever technical question brought them to a place like LFPF.
As for using real names: I personally choose not to do so, not because I want anonymity from other photography forum members, but because I don't want my crazy-ass fundamentalist cult-member family to be able to track me down online. As it is, a google search of my real name turns up nothing after 1995 or so, and I would like to keep it that way. They have already found photos of me that friends posted to their private Facebook accounts, so I know they're looking. For those who would say "So what?", all I have to say is this: you really don't know just how crazy they can be.
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