They last a lot better in the lab or studio than in the field. But ya still gotta be careful. Keep around some alcohol wipes for your fingers. And some colors are more susceptible to fading than others, which is one reason I never buy used or even old gels unless I'm certain of their storage conditions. The old Kodak Wratten handbook is excellent, with all its spectrograms, transmission characteristic, fade rating, etc.
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