Factors that affect depth of field are focal length (as you know), aperture, and lens-to-subject distance. The first photo below was taken on 4x5 using a 210 f/5.6 Nikkor-W lens. I don't recall the f/stop used, but it was close to wide open, possibly stopped down as far as f/8. I wish I could tell you exactly, but I'm not a good note-taker. Camera position was chosen not only for composition, but to achieve the loss of focus on the background figures which, although still key elements of the composition, don't need explicit detail. Only their suggestion is required in order to tell the story. As you can tell, the camera was almost in the face of the foreground figure. But it wasn't so close as to cause distortion. f/5.6 is not f/3.2, but the combination of focal length and camera position did the job in this case.
Sculpture Detail,
Student Body by Julia Balk,
photo: 1993
Also consider a soft-focus lens. While the soft-focus effect applies equally to the entire image, the out-of-focus areas
seem to "dissolve" a bit more quickly as they fade into the background. Again, while the whole image is affected by the soft-focus quality of the lens, at moderate apertures the "in-focus" image appears relatively quite sharp compared to the image beyond the focus plane. YMMV, of course. In the following image, note how the vase (which is not far behind the plane of focus) is almost a mere suggestion of an actual vase. The stems of the sunflowers are also defocused a bit and they're even part of the subject itself. Note that even the bloom on the left has begun to show the effect of defocusing and it would be considered to be in the same plane as the main subject. This is why (to my eye) that the soft focus lens (in this example an 8 3/4" Verito) seems to lose focus very quickly as the subject moves away from the plane of best focus. But again, please let me stress that this is
my perception. As noted before, YMMV. This image was shot at an effective f/stop of approximately f/6 which, to me, is where the Verito sings.
Three Vanities, 2004
Good luck in your search. I'm sure you will find a way to express your photographic ideas if you keep searching and keep an open mind.
BTW, 8x10 won't necessarily give you a shallower depth of field due only to the format. It's because that the standard lenses for 8x10 have a longer focal length than for smaller formats that the depth of field seems shallower.
A 14" lens will give you the same depth of field on 4x5 as on 8x10, all other variables (f/stop, camera distance) being equal.
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