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rdenney
11-Mar-2025, 06:39
It is with much sadness that the moderators report that Ralph Barker, one of the original members of this forum and its longest serving moderator, has died. He passed away on October 16, 2024. He had reported a number of health problems over the last decade. We have been in touch with his son, but have not heard any specifics about how he died.

Ralph was an influential and highly respected expert on Unix systems administration, and owned his own consultancy in Silicon Valley in the 80's. He served as the editor of several magazines in that space in the 90's, and was a key figure in important software standards committees back in the day. By the turn of the millennium he was already well known as a California photographer. Soon after, he moved to New Mexico.

QT Luong wrote this about Ralph:

Ralph Barker, a dedicated photographer and longtime moderator of the Large Format Photography Forum, passed away last year after more than a quarter-century of involvement with the community. Though I never had the chance to meet Ralph in person, we communicated extensively over the years, and his presence on the forum was deeply felt by all who participated.

Ralph’s passion for photography began in the mid-1960s, around the time I was born. Over the decades, he worked professionally across a vast range of subjects, mastering multiple formats, including 4x5 and 8x10. His technical knowledge was extensive, and he was always generous in sharing his expertise, becoming one of the forum’s earliest and most prolific contributors in the late 1990s.

When I started the forum, I was the sole moderator, and the policies were relatively relaxed. I don’t recall exactly how Ralph joined me in that role, but his enthusiasm and track record made it an easy decision. I was honored that someone with his depth of photographic and life experience volunteered his time to help. I respected his wisdom so much that I gradually stepped into the background, trusting his steady hand in guiding the forum.

As the forum’s first true moderator, Ralph played a pivotal role in shaping its core principles: a strict focus on large-format photography and a firm stance against commercial and political activities. He was patient and fair yet unwavering in enforcing these standards, ensuring the forum remained a dedicated space for meaningful photographic discussion. When Kirk joined the moderation team in 2009, Ralph transitioned to handling background tasks, but his decade as the main moderator had already left an enduring mark. He remained active on the forum until just months before his passing.

Though his website never fully materialized, some of Ralph’s personal work after retiring from professional photography can be found in a Blurb publication. His images, like his contributions to the forum, reflected his dedication to the craft.

Ralph, your patience, knowledge, and generosity helped shape a community that continues to thrive. You will be missed.

Rick writes:

More than anyone, Ralph established the tradition among the moderators of letting discussions proceed and applying moderation only when they ventured into specifically prohibited topics. Most forums are moderated by those whose sole objective is to keep peace, and do so somewhat broadly, throwing a lot of wheat out with the chaff. We have always tried to adopt a light touch, but still preserve the principles on which this forum has always been based, and we owe that balance to Ralph's example.

On a trip to New Mexico in early 2019, I was lucky to have a free evening and brought together several people I know in the Albuquerque area, including Ralph. (I exercised a similar opportunity in 2012 with Kirk, on a different trip to Albuquerque.) Chatting with Ralph in the side room at Sadie's in the North Valley felt so natural and at home. He's just the sort of person one wants to sit next to, late in the evening, in a comfy chair in front of a crackling fire, sipping a fine whisky, and solving the world's problems. The side room at Sadie's wasn't that, of course, but the company that evening made it seem so.

We've had controversies on the forum, and will undoubtedly have them again. We will muddle through. But we will miss Ralph's maturity, wisdom, and friendship.

Oren writes:

Within this small world of ours, a mighty oak has fallen.

Ralph was a perceptive observer of human behavior. Together with his long and comprehensive memory of this Forum, his talent for cutting straight to the heart of an issue and ability to debate possible solutions without ever being disagreeable provided a solid foundation for our work as a team. I am also especially grateful for Ralph's patience and wise counsel during those early days after I joined the moderation team and was finding my sea legs.

We would all like to be remembered in part by the photographs we made, and Ralph was no different. He uploaded dozens of excellent photographs in his profile on this forum, and we will (of course) leave that active in perpetuity.

Ralph's Photo Archive on LFPF (https://www.largeformatphotography.info/forum/album.php?u=3424)

Here are a few samples of his work to inspire us:

https://www.largeformatphotography.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=257730&d=1740032119

https://www.largeformatphotography.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=257731&d=1740032163

https://www.largeformatphotography.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=257732&d=1740032193

https://www.largeformatphotography.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=257734&d=1740032250

https://www.largeformatphotography.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=257735&d=1740032274

https://www.largeformatphotography.info/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=257733&d=1740032218

We invite you to write about your memories of Ralph in this thread.

Respectfully Submitted,

The Moderators

cowanw
11-Mar-2025, 07:33
Condolences to all

bob carnie
11-Mar-2025, 08:10
I met Ralph in 2006, he graciously invited my wife and I for lunch and we spent a few hours with him on our way to California, we enjoyed the visit with him . Rest in Peace Ralph.

BrianShaw
11-Mar-2025, 08:43
A tragic loss to our community. RIP, Ralph, and thanks for all you have done for us.

Hugo Zhang
11-Mar-2025, 08:54
Rip.

darr
11-Mar-2025, 09:21
I am deeply saddened to hear about Ralph's passing. He was not only a wealth of knowledge but also a generous and kind presence in the forum community. Personally, he was always gracious to me, sharing insights and advice with patience and sincerity. His contributions were invaluable, and his steady presence made the forum a better place for all of us.

Ralph will be truly missed. He was a constant giant of a gentleman whose wisdom and kindness left a lasting impact. My thoughts are with his family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Rest in peace, Ralph.

jnantz
11-Mar-2025, 09:26
What sad news.
My condolences to his friends and family.
John

Roger Thoms
11-Mar-2025, 09:35
Sad new indeed, my condolences to all Ralph's friends and family.

Roger

Vaughn
11-Mar-2025, 09:40
RIP...a good man.

Benjamin
11-Mar-2025, 11:08
Very moving tributes. RIP, and condolences to Ralph's family and friends.

Peter Mounier
11-Mar-2025, 12:01
I am very sorry to hear about Ralph's passing. May he rest in peace.

Bill Burk
11-Mar-2025, 13:55
So sorry to hear

B.S.Kumar
11-Mar-2025, 16:37
I am deeply saddened to hear this. My condolences to his family.

Kumar

John Kasaian
12-Mar-2025, 16:23
This is a terrible loss. Ralph was a true gentleman and a very kind soul. I'll miss him.
Condolences to his family.

Renato Tonelli
12-Mar-2025, 20:29
Sorry to hear. My condolences to his family and friends.

Merg Ross
12-Mar-2025, 21:50
Sad to hear. I had the pleasure of meeting Ralph twenty years ago on a photo outing here in the Bay Area. He was using an 8x10 at the time and shortly thereafter moved to New Mexico. Over the years we occasionally conversed on this forum, often giving him an opportunity to express his sense of humor. I always felt that he was a quiet voice lending guidance to the success of the forum. He will be missed.

My sincere condolences to his family and friends.

neil poulsen
13-Mar-2025, 04:27
I was the lone moderator, and I recall suggesting that we add a second. Ralph came aboard and really took off. He was technical, where I was not. So, he dealt with IP addresses, could snoop out "camouflaged" trolls, etc. He helped navigate the LF Forum from the old Lusenet software to the excellent software that we currently enjoy. Believe me, when I say that he was on the job all of the time. And above all of that, he was also a large format enthusiast. :)

It takes a lot to run a forum like this, especially one that is so well-mannered. But, it's not without the staunch support of individuals like Ralph. He will be missed.

drj52
13-Mar-2025, 16:21
I was a UNIX admin back when Ralph was an editor at UNIX Review, an indispensable journal. Sorry to hear of his passing.

Doug Herta
13-Mar-2025, 21:12
I remember the time when the Large Format Forum branched from the Photo.net forum and have always cherished this little corner of the internet. While other photography forums ended up in Nikon V Canon spats (Coke V Pepsi? Ford V Chevy?) and other such nonsense, this forum has remained useful, civil, and an excellent source of information.

Why has this place succeeded? Due to the sheer effort that Ralph and others have put into moderating and guiding the culture. So sorry to hear of Ralphs passing. He was a steady hand and (from what I can tell) a wonderful human being.

Len Middleton
14-Mar-2025, 11:43
That is sad news.

Always appreciated his nuanced and thoughtful approach.

RIP Ralph and condolences to his family and friends

Andrew O'Neill
25-Mar-2025, 08:11
I'm just hearing about this now.
Condolences to his family.
RIP.

Pat Kearns
6-May-2025, 16:14
I am just now reading of the loss of Ralph. It is very sad news, a loss to the community, family and friends. Even though I never knew Ralph personally, I had deepest respect for the hard work he devoted to this forum. May Ralph rest in peace.